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I feel like a lot of twentysomethings, because of immaturity, aren't as informed about the disease and stigmatize it. What if the person I'm with right now isn't the right person for me? Am I saying no to all the other guys who might be the one I want to spend my life with?

I once went on four dates in a day. When you are constantly texting multiple people and don't respond to one, you get the infamous question mark text. You never intended to break someone's heart. It's just a lot. On one hand, this is kind of great because you get to weed out a lot of clunkers you wouldn't want to spend time with. On the other hand, it sucks because there's less for you to discover from spending actual, in-person time with him.

You can be having a great conversation with a guy online, then, at the slightest suspicion that you are a total queen, you are ghosted. We just need to learn that some guys really are into Britney Spears while others really do love monster trucks, but that doesn't define what they can bring to dating or a relationship. I've been in all three relationships and neither was perfect, but all provided wonderful learning and growth opportunities. Relationship dynamics are unique. The relationship I want with one man is not exactly the same kind I'd want with another. It's become a thing to hide behind a virtual wall and become something you're not.

That's why I prefer meeting someone through mutual friends or activities. There aren't any surprises. Why do I need to find a guy at an 'Urban Night? It's like you are a mistress but aren't since you both are single. I understand that people are in very different places in their coming-out process when they are Each guy is at a different place in their gay maturity. Though I respect that, I still want to find someone in a similar place of coming out.

It can feel like babysitting otherwise. Even though they're absolutely correct, maybe my idea of fun is not being single. I know what 'wild and crazy fun' is out there, but I already got it out of my system. I feel that I'm ready to settle down. So yeah, I have every right to want to be with someone. I always have to preface an explanation about how I met someone with how it's the acceptable thing to do with the gays.

It's not fair. Straight people have a whole buffet of other straight people in front of them at all times. If a straight male sees an attractive female from across the room, he knows there is at some level a "chance" that the two of them could be together.

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Obviously he may not have talked to her there, but odds are that basic framework of potential attraction exists. When a gay man spots another man, unless he relies on stereotypes, he really has no idea if this fundamental potential exists. Odds are against him. So, for him, he must spend a large portion of his time just finding out if that BASIC level of potential attraction required for any romantic relationship is there. Only after that can the other developments start.

I think this especially true in more closeted circles like the area I'm from. Obviously in more gay-friendly areas it's easier to figure these things out. You need a good gaydar to work out who is gay or open. Plus, just because you're gay doesn't mean you only fancy other gay people. That's not easy either. As a girly lesbian, I constantly get overlooked. If I'm in a gay club, everyone thinks I'm just some straight girl hanging about. I'm not gay enough for some lesbians and I'm forever having to "come out" to people over and over again because it's not obvious.

Which I realise is not always a bad thing. People need to realize that LGBT people come in all shapes and sizes and rainbow varieties. By now it should be obvious, but for some reason it isn't. As a femme lesbian, I have to come out over and over again like this woman. It gets annoying because you genuinely don't know how people will react, at the very least you don't want them to stick that gay label on you as though it's the most interesting thing about you. You feel safer in a gayborhood, but that is also typically a place where gay bashers will congregate if they get in that mood.

Also, when I was in a less accepting place than here, when my former partner and I would kiss on a public date, such as a public park, and there were cops around, we would often get harassed and threatened to be arrested for solicitation whereas the straight couples that were there were given a free pass to go fuck in the woods. This is really sad but I had to include it because some people don't think that gay bashing still exists - it does. That's one of the many reasons why we have pride, to show that we're a strong community who stands up against injustices.

It isn't a huge deal but after 6 years together it eats away at you and becomes extremely grating. Okay, so it's not so bad. But I get it. The little ways in which we're treated differently gets annoying. It's like you're given little reminders that you're not what is considered "the norm". For this guy, the fact that he mentions the length of his relationship shows that he feels as though these little things invalidate his relationship somehow.

It's not fair that he should have to feel that way. It creates a small bit of paranoia, and apparently really isn't that uncommon. Also, for females, jealousy. We are still women! I'll be jealous that she's so gorgeous, she'll be jealous that I'm so thin, I'll be jealous of her hair, she'll There is not always a guy and a girl. I understand its to connect it to something you might not understand, but sometimes there really just isn't one. Looks from people in public. The nice thing is, usually they're nice looks, or more confused. Hell, I do it too! It's kind of a reminder of how far we've come.

If I'm not feeling well on a date and need to go excuse myself she can and several have just been like, "Oh I need to go to the bathroom too, I'll come with you. This is hilarious but true. Why do women always have to go to the toilet together? God knows. But it isn't great for lesbian relationships. Even if you don't let out an accidental fart in the bathroom stall next to your date, you still don't want to hear what they're doing in there, not if you haven't been together too long anyway.

Straight people don't get questioned or challenged about it when they say they want a baby. Why should I? So their expectation is that I will answer telling them exactly how my partner and I will have a baby, like what method.

I wouldn't ask her if her and her husband had some good old P in V, and how many times, before they conceived. I will add to what another user said - be prepared for much more personal questions about your sex life, and your personal life in general. I understand much of it is from ignorance, they genuinely don't understand how I can have a baby with another woman, but you know what, google it.

I wonder personal things about people all the time. But I don't blurt it out to them because that would be rude, and it's not my place to ask them to explain themselves to sate my curiosity. From my experience this does nothing but encourage guys, and they invariably ask you to "kiss to prove it" and continue to harass you for a while. I've just started pretending to be dating one of my male friends when this happens now, to which the usual response is "oh, sorry dude!