Top Reviews Most recent Top Reviews. There was a problem filtering reviews right now. Please try again later. Paperback Verified Purchase. Mo is definitely an entertaining, funny author, which makes the book a fun read for the average woman who likes to laugh about her dating history. But for those who actually NEED a guide to dating, meaning that they need help to get there, this book nearly ignores that perspective.

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It's biggest pitfall is that she seems to assume that everybody who's adventuring in that dating world doesn't have any trouble actually picking up women. But isn't that the hardest part? The awkwardness of breaking the question to a woman you don't know? This book made me feel like an important element was frustratingly missing. Its only significant useful tidbits were her suggestions on good places to meet women beyond the bars, obviously.

Beyond that, it's pretty forgettable. One person found this helpful. Written during "Dubya" presidency. Written during "Dubya" presidency, the foreshadowing to Drumpf presidency was an extra added humour bonus. I didn't really get anything out of it to be honest. It was okay though. More like a fun time jokey joke book. Best given to someone who is looking for an easy going relaxing in the tub type of book or a fun article. You might really appreciate Is it a date or just coffee? Very funny.

I would recommend this light hearted yet informative book. It is a short book and is easy reading. Thoroughly enjoyed this read!

Unexpectedly found myself laughing out loud frequently. Well written with humor and plenty of helpful tips and information. Didn't want it to end. A fast read. Thank you for making this available! Definitely 5 stars from me! This book was hillarious and very entertaining. Definately not a guide for serious info if you want to know if its just a date or coffee.

Girl to girl dating can be confusing and unclear most of the time. Learned nothing from the text, if anything reminesced about former dates that turned bad that I can laugh at now. Valley Gay Press Book Reviewer: Liz Bradbury A step by step guide to "gay girls" dating, sex and romance. Just broke up or got dumped? You need this book, because good advice is better served with a side dish of laughs.

Mo Brownsey, long time comedian and lesbian studies college professor writes a humor filled book, packed with information lesbian and bisexual women really need. Take her number off the speed dial! Then deftly covers: Brownsey is the kind of friend who'd not only grab you by the lapels and exclaim, "Snap out of it! If don't have a friend like that, get this book. Well, perhaps dating was too strong a word since it always seems to turn out to be coffee. When straight gals meet straight guys, they know what to expect.

With gay-gal dating, they seem to be showering together before reaching a consensus as to whether or not they are friends or something more. Fortunately, Mo Brownsey takes some of the confusion out gay-gal dating with her wonderful book.

From being single, relationships, breakups and mourning, Brownsey covers it all. Need help identifying the dreaded lesbian bed death? Not sure if it's lust or love? Considering multiple partner relationships? Mo supplies the answers along with tongue-in-cheek comedy that will keep you howling with laughter no matter where you are concerning gay-gal relationships.

So, you finally took the plunge.

Ten years ago, when I went on my first date with a woman , it was awkward, exhilarating, and imperfect. Ahead are nine tips that I and other seasoned queer daters have learned along the way. This is queer world, and there are no rules here. From there, try asking your date out sooner than you normally would. Pick a trendy cocktail bar and stick to it. Drinks might be an obvious first date, but a cocktail bar will give you time and space to talk in a pleasant setting.

It is totally normal to be anxious before any date — this one even more so. I find that going out with a close friend beforehand is the perfect way to forget about nerves, loosen up, and get some support and advice. If you are still a nervous wreck after a cocktail and a pep talk, your friend can even walk you to your date. This eliminates the awkward finding each other dance — just text your date that you have a table — enjoy one drink there is nothing wrong with a small date pregame , and remember: That is to say, I have covered my deepest childhood trauma before my martini even arrived.

For the love of Lana Del Rey, pay the damn bill.

You asked her out, you pay. You are free from heteronormative rules surrounding gender. Bask in it. There is nothing to dictate who opens doors, pulls out a chair, or gets the drinks. Like so many things in this cruel world, first-date-kissing can be an anxiety-provoking experience, especially for two women free from those weird heteronormative rules about who should make the first move.

I say, as long as you both consent, anything goes. If it feels right, compliment your date, touch her arm, and make eye contact. And if the vibe is right, consider a kiss. Is her body language open and inviting? Trying to be cool all the time is officially cancelled. On dates, I frequently think back to a piece of job interview advice I once got. If you want to wear a bralette, a leather jacket, and bold red lipstick, do it.