I do know the "I don't do ONS" then they have sex with you and that's that I was just annoyed that they couldn't be honest with me I haven't said that anyone here doesn't speak German or doesn't want to I realise that doesn't say he was advocating not learning the language or indeed not using, but as someone who loves other languages I have a problem with that attitude, I think if people go to a foriegn country learning the native language should be rather high on the list of things to do, but that's another thread: I realise that doesn't say he was advocating not learning the language You're right in thinking that I'm not advocating not learning the language.

I started studying German back in San Francisco so that I could use it when I came here for vacation. I would feel pretty arrogant if I was not able to communicate in German as I would expect anyone living in the states to have some basic knowledge of English.

That said, almost everyone here not only the Germans speaks English, something that has unfortunately slowed my progress in speaking German. Plus many people myself included find German difficult. Still, it's really convenient for anyone who's moving here and has little or no knowledge of German. Just be aware that there can be some miscommunication at times.

For instance, some Germans use the word "irritated" when they mean "confused" as it seems to be a direct translation from the German word "irritiert". Believe me, that mix up led to a lengthy, heated discussion at the beginning of my relationship. Berlin has everything any big city has its what you make of it and where you choose to hang out as a gay man. I'm glad you understood it the way I meant it: I also remember the lengthy arguements Klaus and I had at the beginning of our relationship, when we had to stop to look the word up: Posted 4 Aug I am gay, English, 24, and been living here for almost 2 years now Love is dead in Berlin.

Being a slut is simple, finding a long term boyfriend not so much Although I agree that there are many great places in the city and that it is a tolerant place to live, I think your take on Schoeneberg is simplistic, unfair and a more than a bit judgmental. Also, being over thirty , I have some friends over thirty who have met a partner in Berlin and got married and even done it myself.

And heaven forbid we like to even go for a beer now and then in Schoeneberg! When I was 24, I wasn't really into getting super serious and probably would have run from what you described too, but I don't think that makes someone a slut either and who cares if they are for that matter. Maybe you are coming on a bit strong?

Just sayin' As for the OP, I hope the advice above has helped, Berlin is a wonderful city - don't worry too much about "finding the one". I think it will happen when the time's right, no matter where you are: I've done the drunken cycling thing before: But your "Love is dead" in Berlin mantra is not unique to Berlin or even Germany. It sounds to me more like growing pains as you move further and further from your teens to that dealthly number of 30!

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For many people, a big cathartic change happens around 27 years old. Most young guys are sluts because, well, it's call over-abundance of testosterone flying around in a young man's body. In hetero-relationships, the testosterone is counter-balanced by a woman. Get two young men together and there's not a lot of balance going on.

The problem I see is when this behavior becomes habitual and and carries on through their 30s, 40s, 50s and yeah, 60s.

I've had 3 big relationships in my life--one 5 year after college in a torrid affair with a former classmate, in my 30s, an 8 year that I met in a bar in the Silverlake area of Los Angeles ended up great friends , and my current husband, who I met at a festive dance in Cologne about so years ago the absolute love of my life. I can assure you, Berlin is not exceptionally unique with it's gay scene. Gays are gay no matter what hideous form of leather shorts they're sporting.

There are no magic relationship cities where there is an abundance of Prince Charmings. Love just happens when you're least expecting it--it can happen in Berlin or it can happen in the Schwarzwald. It's a matter of timing and chance. To the OP. Dboi, 30 years. Hamburg , Hamburg I am a gentle guy staying next door I am honest. Labrinetnatahan, 24 years. Traveller, 41 years.

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